“You know that you are in heaven when you hold your Dear partner close to you. But I postulate that you are deep inside a clever designed trap laid out by nature for only one purpose: To ensure the future of the mankind”.
Nothing feels better than to be close to your partner. Nature however makes sure that you not only enjoy the show but that you like to stay in close contact with your partner as long as possible. Pheromones, lipophilic compounds associated with skin and follicles, together with other subtle tricks, may provide some underlying help to stimulate the brain of the partner which in turn activates our own sexual behavior and our attraction to the opposite gender.
Do Humans Have Pheromones?
Human pheromones, although not yet fully confirmed to exist (just wait for it), are likely very much part of the invisible but very strong trap together with the control center, the brain, which always does what it wants most. It is a perfect illusion that we think we are in full control of what we want. Very likely, the opposite is the case. Likely soon, scientists will detect and synthesize our pheromones for all to see. But we already feel that they exist and have some kind of influence on us.
Undoubtful, we are guided carefully and unknown to us, the full way, until the result, a newborn, has been accomplished. But even now and then, nature makes sure we not just drop the baby at the next opportunity but actually love it too. The big eyes of the toddlers are only one trick which lets the mother stay and take care of the baby. And yes, most fathers like those eyes too.
Men are not very much interested in other babies or children but for some reason, they are very much attracted emotionally to their own offspring. They are in a trap again and have now to feed the whole family. Their love guides to responsibility and to the survival of their own family or perhaps better said of his own, well marked territory.
It goes even so far that a man and his wife would do everything for their kids, even if their attractions to each other might have cooled down when the trap has been removed, often carefully, slowly and in a very gentle way.
Heaven and Hell work very close together. Attraction can turn into hate and men might even interested again in another member of the opposite sex only to enter into the same beautifully designed trap again.
Actually, men are usually never released from their particular trap. They are only being allowed to exchange the current trap into another one of the same kind. Worse actually, they are also being allowed to try out several traps at once. Simply, because in the beginning, the trap does not look like one and is the most heavily camouflaged one we know. But even if a trap is recognized as such, it will be usually ignored. Double success for the always busy designer.
Whatever component is used to design the trap, pheromones, smell or behavior, men are, what they are and so are the women.
That means, men can enter the game almost immediately again while the women, during the time until she stops breastfeeding, might not be very interested in sexual activities. She has more important responsibilities. This actually is a slap against the sexual vitality of a man. But what can he do? The trap has wide reaching implications.
You might wonder what is part of the major trap?
Very easy, remember the three words:
Love, Attraction, Desire ##
© 2011, Original: Article-Athenaeum (Another Point of Views)
© 2022, Republished & Updated with permit: Rainer F. Otto (Link-Mail)
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